You know, when we start hating someone, we are so sure of the fact that we will go on hating them till the last breath of our body leaves us. We may not be sure if we will pass our 12th Board exams; may not know what we’re going to end up doing with our lives – but we know this – we will hate them with everything that we have.
And yet, one fine morning we wake up (will take years before we wake up to this morning, trust me – I’ve been there) realizing that it’s been months since we had the last hateful thought about that person; in fact, we’ve hardly even thought about this person at all- leave alone hateful thoughts!!
This realization is the most beautiful feeling one can ever experience – after falling in love I guess, but since I’ve not been there yet, I’ll reserve judgment – its like a heavy, stinking, reeking load has been taken off your shoulders.
Mind you, don’t expect yourself to possess the ability to carry on friendly conversions with your ex-I-HATE-YOU-THE-MOST – simply because, you are not Jesus Christ. But you will find that, you don’t get the urge to punch this person right on their face just on principle. You actually find yourself with ability to be in the same room with this person for an entire function without the above mentioned urge!
I don’t know about you but, as far as I’m concerned, it’s very beautiful indeed if you find yourself not hating someone anymore. It is a sign that you have grown up and that you’ve moved on.
So for all those people out there who find themselves hating someone…. Don’t worry you will wake up one morning finding that you don’t hate them anymore.